LCI will soon fill the vacated position Woody left behind.
The church will find another man or woman to assist in
ushering church guests to their seats.
The Miscues will find another pool player to take Woody’s
place in the neighborhood pool league.
Friends will find another confidante.
Society will find another citizen.
Every role Woody played can easily be recast except for one—the
role he played in the lives of his family members. His parents cannot recast
the role of their son. His brother cannot play the part with another man. I
will never do another love scene with my leading man. The kids can never yell
out, “Dad!” and know that their hero will arrive on site to save the day. Here,
in our hearts and in our lives, he is irreplaceable.
Of all the vocations and roles Woody played, husband and
father are the ones he performed best. Everything else came in behind family.
He knew which job he needed to devote his time and attention to. His priorities
were in line; and because he executed his duties so well, the role he played at
home complimented every other role he played in his life. That is why we feel
his loss so deeply, why the wounds are so severe, and why the grief is so
grave.
Sometimes as I watch the world continue to spin and the
lives of people around me continue unaltered, I want to scream. I am incensed
that in all the parts Woody played he was expendable—replaceable. Yet, in the
one occupation that mattered most in life, he will always be irreplaceable. We
cannot advertise of his vacancy and take applications to fill the position.
Where this tragedy was a speed bump in the lives of others, it was a head on,
life-altering collision for us. We have lost something that will never be found
again this side of heaven.
I see people around me who do not take the roles they play
in their family as seriously as they should. I see families falling apart
because husbands and wives do not give their best to the position they play in
the family. Their characters are weak and are soon recast through adultery or
vices. I want to scream, “Do you not know what you are throwing away? Why can’t
you see?” They are blinded by greed and lust. They treat family as if it is
expendable. We have truly become a “throw-away” society.
I am thankful for a man who understood the responsibilities
God had given him. I am a better person because I was valued above a career,
volunteering, friends, and society. I was loved completely and for that, I will
continually praise God. My prayer for
you is that you will live life in such a way that when you are gone your family
can say, “He/She is irreplaceable.”
Thank you for your courage and sharing what is most important about life and love...and living, really living in the Hands of God. I pray for your peace, courage and steadfast spirit to grow each and every day.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Brenda, for affirming God's calling on my life. We have lived through a nightmare. However, there may be pain in the night but rejoicing will come in the morning. With joy we anticipate the morning when we will be made complete and see the wonderful man whom we called "daddy" and "husband" along with our every merciful God.
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